The question I keep asking myself is why.Why does god take us, when life is so perfect, not worth missing. A good friend of mine has passed away. He was engaged,happy. It was a good pure, deep love. No jealousy only security. My friend Melissa the bride to be, always swore she would never get married...then she met Jeff. Two weeks later they bought a house and had each others intials tatooed on their hands. At that point everyone was in the background telling them to cool it. A year later they w more...
The question I keep asking myself is why.Why does god take us, when life is so perfect, not worth missing. A good friend of mine has passed away. He was engaged,happy. It was a good pure, deep love. No jealousy only security. My friend Melissa the bride to be, always swore she would never get married...then she met Jeff. Two weeks later they bought a house and had each others intials tatooed on their hands. At that point everyone was in the background telling them to cool it. A year later they were engaged... and now this. I don,t know what to say sorry just isn,t enough... less...
That is one question that I have never had answered to my liking.
Oh I have had the supposedly official answers as well as the ones that come from blind less faith and robotism, but I have not had one that makes sense. .
If I am to believe in god, any that I have been exposed to (and I have seen several versions) then surely he must be a extremely cruel and sadistic?
For him allow the pain and sorrow that we, "his children" have to suffer does not exhibit love, compassion, forgi more...
That is one question that I have never had answered to my liking.
Oh I have had the supposedly official answers as well as the ones that come from blind less faith and robotism, but I have not had one that makes sense. .
If I am to believe in god, any that I have been exposed to (and I have seen several versions) then surely he must be a extremely cruel and sadistic?
For him allow the pain and sorrow that we, "his children" have to suffer does not exhibit love, compassion, forgiveness.
I am sorry for your loss, but dont know if asking that question will relieve your pain.. less...
The same could be said about why God takes little children from Cancer.
I good friend of mine...his little boy who was 7 died from cancer a few months ago. I don't know if he questioned why God did this more than that he believed there was a reason. No One will ever really know the reasons to the questions of "why".
Just be a good friend to her and be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on.
I know that you don't know what to say, and that is ok. As an oncology nurse I see these situations frequently. Nothing is going to be the right thing to say for your friend. She is hurting. The most important thing is to be there for her and listen. When she is cursing God, herself, and everyone else, just listen. Let her know that you are there for her.
